“You are probably familiar with situations like these:

- You post something smart and thoughtful to one of your social networks, and nobody responds – while somebody else posts something silly or trivial, and droves of enthusiastic people jump in: “This is so cool! Love it! You are a genius!”
- You enter a crowded room (like a party), and nobody notices you. The moment you muster the courage and start talking to somebody, they don’t see you and turn to the waiter instead.
- You are listening to an interesting conversation and want to contribute something meaningful. The moment you speak up, somebody else says something, and everybody turns to that person.

Painful, embarrassing, humilaiting,isn’t it.
Being invisible to other people, not having a voice can be devestating – especially if it is the theme of your life. Old, intense chilhood pain comes up, memories of parents who would not pay attention to the little girl or boy.

Now, when you are grown up and feel invisible (without a voice), that means two things:

1. You are re-enacting childhood scenarios
2. You are literally on a different vibrational level than the people around you. For example: If you are a hypersensitive introvert, you will not do well with a crowd of frolicking six-pack Joes and Janes. Does that mean that there is something wrong with you? Not in the least (nothing wrong with the happy crowd either). Your vibrations just don’t match.

Keep that in mind for your EFT reframes:

Even though I am invisible to so many people around me,
I am willing to connect with the people who can appreciate me

Even though my voice does not count, I am ready to meet people who are eager to hear what I have to say

Even though nobody ever seems to see or hear me, I trust my spiritual guidance to lead me to “my people”.

Keep going. You will find what you are looking for. Nobody is cut off in our world; it is energetically impossible.”