I’ll admit it.  I’m on the of people you here about that didn’t get any matches from EHarmony.  Since I’m bored and the commercial said it would actually possible find “my type”, thought I’d give it a try.

• Your major personality type = Negotiator
• Your minor personality type = Director

You are a NEGOTIATOR/director

You have a great overview of reality. You see many angles to the same issue and enjoy discussing multiple solutions to complex problems. You like to use your imagination and engage in creative theorizing.

You have executive social skills, easily picking up the gestures, facial expressions and speech patterns of others. You are intuitive; you generally understand people, and your sympathetic nature makes you pliant, adaptable and likeable.

Yet despite your charm and poise in large social situations, you often enjoy solitude or intense conversations with just one individual or a few close friends.

You are good at doing and thinking a lot of things at the same time. But when you focus on an issue, idea or problem, you like to concentrate in depth. You leave no stone unturned.

And with your insight, charm and intellectual bent, you make warm and interesting company.

How your personality breaks out		You		Matched with		Compatibility Rating
Explorer - 22% of your personality Known for high energy, high creativity and spontaneity. Seeks novelty, risk and pleasure. Intellectually curious and not easily swayed by opinion.
Builder - 24% of your personality Usually very popular. Deep attachment to home and family. Calm demeanor and low anxiety. Often consistent, loyal and protective.
Negotiator - 28% of your personality Excels at seeing the big picture, long-term planning and consensus building. An intuitive thinker who is flexible, verbal and socially skilled. Imaginative, empathetic and nurturing.
Director - 25% of your personality Daring, original, direct and inventive. A non-conformist. Skilled at abstract thinking and short-term planning. Often assertive and quite competitive. Tough-minded and efficient.

Dating Tips for Negotiators

• In the beginning of a relationship, try not to over think the situation or over—react to minor set backs. If there’s chemistry and compassion, it will all work out.
• You may be so diplomatic that your potential partner is unclear who you are. Take a chance at being more direct and decisive.
• Rather than waiting for the right moment, interrupt now and then with some of your imaginative and broad—minded ideas; it can lead to sparkling, involved conversation and close companionship.
• Let a potential partner know your boundaries, needs and hopes. This way he or she will be able to act accordingly to deepen the bond.
• Talking is only one form of intimacy. Try doing something side by side with him or her, particularly something new and collaborative.

Testosterone builds the length of the fourth (right) digit in the womb. The longer your ring finger (in relation to your pointing finger) the more you are likely to have mathematical, mechanical and/or musical skills.

*my middle finger is really longer than my pointer finger.