Tariq Nasheed
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PLEASE HELP!!! Wife Tries to Control Me With Bogus Police Calls
WSID (WHAT SHOULD I DO)
January 12, 2008
14 years of Marriage, Together 20 years
This is the 3rd time that my wife has called the police to our home for something that I felt was not correct.
The 1st time my wife called the police a couple of years ago, whereby I felt we were both wrong. I went to jail & it has hindered employment as well as cost me money. That was in 1998 almost ten years ago. I actually had to hold her down from hitting me. Their pretense was that I was not supposed to hold her down. They took me to JAIL.
2nd time a couple of months ago my wife called the police because I threw the kid’s toys away. Me & my wife got into a disagreement about the house being in disarray & also about the children’s toys. My wife told me that “if you throw those toys away I am going to call the police” I took that as a threat. I did throw the toys away & she called the police. When the police came the felt that it was a domestic issue that did not warrant a police to be called to the house. I felt horrible so I left for about a week. I intended on staying away & leaving the relationship. I missed my children & we reconciled. We never really dealt with why she called them.
3rd Time TODAY my wife called the police today after we had a disagreement about one of my daughters. We had talked about what school we wanted our daughter to go to, but we never came to a conclusion about what school we would send her to. I wanted her to go to a particular school & she wanted her at another. Last night I was telling my wife about how important it was for us to be good to one another because you never know if you are going to be here the next day. We are have dinner at the time. Somehow the conversation came up about School. My wife told me in front of my children that “She is not going to the school you want them to go to because she does not want to go to that school” I told my wife that it is not her choice we have to decide what school she wants to go to. I felt the argument was about her trying to align our daughter with her. Me & my wife got into an argument about the whole incident. She left the house saying “She is not going to the school you want her to go to” The reason why I was upset about it is because we did not decide together as a family. Her & my daughter talked about it & kept me “out of the loop.” I felt left out as if what I said did not have any value. This morning they were going to a function to talk to the principals & representatives that the county was having (Magnet Mania) even after we disagreed last night I told my wife that I was going to the magnet mania with her & my daughter. My wife said to me “you are not going with us” I felt again she was trying to leave me out of the decision of determining what school my daughter went to. I told my wife “If that is the case she cannot go’ I physically got my daughter & told her that she could not go. My wife went outside & called the police on me again. Again the police told me there was nothing they could as to no crime or potential crime as they saw it was committed.
In Conclusion, I feel a ton of feelings. The most important feeling is disrespect as a father.
If she is calling the police on me like that, it only takes one stupid cop to come to my house & I am screwed. They could make up anything or say anything. Then I could have a felony etc….. I guess what I am saying is how can any black woman call the police on any black man for something as trivial as that. I feel she cannot tell me what to do, so she is getting the white man (system) to control me. I know there are tons of men in relationships who “go along to get along” at the expense of not having a word in how their children are being raised. Many of these guys get married & become a shell of a man. If I am to be with my wife & children I would like to think that we are going to make important decisions together. I am only seeking an equal partnership.
The damage that this does to my two children has to be great. A friend of mine told me today how torn he was when something similar happened to his family when he was a young man. His mom wanted him to do one thing his father wanted another & he could only stand in one place and cry. He said to me that incident still haunts him to this day. The message that this sends to my two girls is when you disagree with daddy call the police!
For the sake of my sanity, safety and to keep level of respect that my children have for me now, I think I have to leave.
Please Give me an intelligent honest answer on what I should do.